About Should I Be Putting Up With This?

Should I Be Putting Up With This? is a digital relationship assessment for women navigating confusing, uncertain, or unhealthy romantic relationships. It was created to make space for honest reflection without judgment, pressure, or generic advice.

The assessment examines trust, emotional safety, reciprocity, compatibility, accountability, values, and recurring patterns. Your responses shape a personalized Relationship Reality Report that helps you organize what you are experiencing and consider your next step with greater clarity.

Successful Black women are at the heart of this work: women whose competence in the rest of life can make relationship uncertainty feel especially isolating. The goal is not to make a decision for you. It is to support your discernment and strengthen trust in what you already know.

This tool is educational and reflective. It is not therapy, diagnosis, legal advice, or emergency support.